My gf and i have been together roughly for months now. We’ve both gone down on each other and thats as far as we’ve gone so far. Im 17 shes 19 and shes had much more experience than i have. Shes had sex before and shes the first girl ive ever even seen breasts on. Youd think i would in NOOOO way have this problem. I can get her off within a few minutes. Roughly between 10 and 20 depending on what i do. The whole act of me pleasuring her not just the singular act. (Foreplay included.) But it takes her roughly 20 to 30 minutes it seems like to get me off. I dont get why. When im by myself it takes a matter of minutes. 10 on an off day. Usually 5. Anyone have a reason why this is happening or any tips on how to speed things along? This makes a second round near impossible for me so id really appreciate it.
Probably shouldve stated earlier i have told her what i like and dislike. Ive showed how as well. Its still not doing it for me. Tonight i practically finished myself while she just sat there and moaned. She said she feels bad when she cant get me off and that she’d rather get me off than me get her off when i feel the same way about her.
Mochi seems about right i think. Ive stopped jerking off myself. I think it helps a little but not a whole lot yet.
Sadly were not having sex so its just a pain in her arm. Once she got a hand and jaw cramp. Shes so good to me about the situation i just wanna make it easier for her. And i dont think shed be down for the porn thing.
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01-Apr-2010
Why do I last too long in bed?
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Talk to her – tell her what you want and what you like. If you need to, show her what you do to yourself. All guys like different things, so you have to teach her too.
don’t care
if it foreplay your talking about and it takes long for her to get you off its because a girl is never better and yanking it then a guy one way to make it Better would have her be behind you and then yank it for you and it will be about the same but that happens for every guy have her all so play with you sack a little that’s always good
you killed your winky with your hand and now you cant feel anything. stop jerking it or get a jerking toy with lube.
Maybe she’s not any good at it? Or maybe you’re gay? Ha no just kidding. I can tell you though, when you finally have sex I don’t know of any girl that would complain about you lasting too long.
Make sure that when you know you are going to be having sex, you dont pleasure yourself for at least that day….maybe even stop it altogether for the time being. If you are spent before you even start having sex with her, theres no hope.
Being sexually experienced doesnt mean that shes a good lover, maybe it is something she is doing wrong, rather than a problem with yourself. Either way…its important not to complain and blow the situation up into a massive negative thing, as this will make you always see sex with her in the wrong light.
It shouldnt be her ‘getting you off’ or you with her, it should please you both. If sex is mechanical, it will never be enjoyable….you shouldnt need to think about what you are doing.
If showing/telling her what you like doesnt work – maybe try something more spontanious to inject some passion!
If that fails, putting a porno on in the background could be the way forward.
I wish my boyfriend could do it that long. You and your girlfriend are lucky compared to me. I have trouble even getting mine to spend time with me.
mate just be happy you got a girl that will give head for 30 minutes most don’t like it much at all