he tries and tries but i just never seem to get one with him…..any tips i can give him like postions motions or even foreplay or anything
04-Mar-2010
he tries and tries but i just never seem to get one with him…..any tips i can give him like postions motions or even foreplay or anything
what you don’t understand is that it is not his job to give you an orgasm.
orgasm happens in the brain, not the genitals, and it’s your own responsibilty to have one, not his job to give you one. If more people understood this they would have a much happier sex life.
Tell him to do whatever it is that you do when you’re masturbating. Tell him what feels good and what doesn’t.
Try oral. You finish first. If that is not enough, you should help yourself out while things are going on.
He needs to learn some basics… tell him to learn about the clitoris.
Maybe You Should Have Him Watch A Few Movies For Tips….
Most women do not have a vaginal orgasm, so when you are having sex, you or he should be stimulating your clitoris.
You must know for getting good orgasm you must be relaxed and should have good foreplay. You should try a position woman on top and ensure vigorous rubbing of your clit with his penis. While you are moving he should work on your back and buttock to excite you more. He can also massage top of your clit by one hand. This is bound to get you to a orgasm.