I just came out of a long term relationship where the girl only liked quickies, like 20 minutes and she was done. So since it was a long term relationship I kinda got trained to only last about that long. Now I’m dating someone else, she hasn’t said anything but I can tell she would like it to last longer. I tried stuff like thinking about non-sexual things to ask longer but that seems to make me go soft. Just like pulling out and doing some more foreplay seems to do that too. I’m not looking to be like a three hour lover or anything but an hour or maybe a little bit longer would be nice. Any tips?
mina1213 > I do a lot of fore play and oral for like an hour or longer when we have time. So the fore play is there, just the sex itself doesn’t last long enough.