03-Apr-2010
Posted by : Marina
Hi guys,
I am in my mid twenties, and my foreskin does not even goes down half way of the upper bigger part of penis(upper bigger part I mean which is 1/2 to 1 inch from the tip) .
My questions -
1. Is it normal ? All I have seen in the movies, the foreskin does goes down the upper bigger part.
2. I don’t get any problem with this during masturbation. Will it cause any problem during sex if I do it a.)with condoms b)without condoms. ? Like if it can hurt badly if the foreskin does not goes down much?
3. How long does a normal usual guy takes to cum ? Like if you start stroking your penis continously, how long will it usually last before you cum. For me, many times it is less than a minute. Is that normal ? Can this cause the partner not getting satisfied ? assuming there is a good descent amount of foreplay time involved.
Pls advice. Serious, knowledgable answers only pls. thanks!
02-Apr-2010
Posted by : Marina
When my partner and I had sex lately, we used a condom and I pulled out. However, during foreplay I noticed a bit of pre-ejaculate on the tip of my penis. I wiped it off just before putting the condom on. How much would this pre-ejaculate being there BEFORE putting the condom on increase the chances of getting her pregnant?
02-Apr-2010
Posted by : Marina
im a 26yr old happily married lady…..heres my problem…..we have **x almost all the days and im very happy 4 that…but ive never reached *** by inserting my husbands ****s…..we do have a lot of foreplay too…..i can get into the desired tip only when my husband does it 4 me with his fingers…but he enjoys by inserting…..he has tried a lot to do the same 4 me too….but…….
i used to masturbate b4 my marriage.is this all bcoz of that…we have consulted a doctor too….please help ….i would love to *************************……….
01-Apr-2010
Posted by : Marina
How do you get a girl to relax?
What kind of things should be said (e.g. what kind of things are important in dirty talk / what tone of voice should be used / should I compliment her vagina?)
What parts of body are important in foreplay?
When performing oral, do you want the guy to look at you in the eye / make any facial expression?
What are important points in making a girl squirt?
Any tips / advice would be appreciated
@Bigboody and Donricky – I’m sorry for offending you and was only loking for some honest advice and wasn’t trying to upset anyone. Try filtering your Y!A questions, you might be able to block out questions relating to sex that you find offensive, so you won’t have to see or answer them.
LMAO @ Lostprophet – you’re right, I think Bigboody and Donricky are gonna be doing some reporting.
01-Apr-2010
Posted by : Marina
When a girl is penetrated for the 1st time should her hymen necessarily be broken by the penis? Can it not be done by the partners fingers during foreplay? My friend told me that when he had sex for the 1st time with his virgin girlfriend that her opening was really small and tight and really uncom4table to get it in…. So that got me thinking is it ok to sort of finger her and break the hymen/make the opening bigger prior to the insertion of the penis or should the penis necessarily be used for initial penetration?
Also any tips for making it less painful the girl and minimizing discomfort for the guy?
all advice & opinions will be appreciated
01-Apr-2010
Posted by : Marina
Hi, I really want to be good at the cow-girl style of sex, but I get completely anxious and up-tight when I’m there…I think it’s mostly because of self-image issues and the fact that I’m a really nervous, shy girl. I just feel like I can’t move or “go for it.” It’s hard to let my man see me let go. Any tips? I also get very lubricated to the point of embarrassment (he can feel it through my jeans in foreplay)…any way to deal with that? Oh and I like to scratch my man’s back when he’s on top, but he doesn’t seem to like it…why? Thanks!
31-Mar-2010
Posted by : Marina
K so my fiance’ and i were talking tonight, making stupid jokes and teasing each other like usual over the phone and we start talking about sex and what not right. well, i haven’t slept with anyone since i was 14, and you couldn’t really call that sleeping with the guy, but the last time he slept with someone he was like 19.
So as we’re still just fooling around on the phone we started talking about Oral and Foreplay and he was saying how he liked to be the one controlling the whole thing right (which i guess is ok with me) but he is so proud of his success in his past performances knowing that he *knows* how to please the girl, and he was telling me how all he wanted to do was give himself completely to me, and (he doesn’t know) but it got me all like jumbled up inside, because I’m not sure if I can, or how to satisfy his needs… Then there came another problem, somehow as we were talking I took a sip of like a day old drink and gagged. He asked what was wrong and I told him that I have really strong gagging reflexes, he started teasing and fooling around even more saying he was gonna wind up giving me a hard time then because of the oral and what not…
so can anyone just give me tips and/or advice on anything, or your stories. like what you like your man to do for you and vice versa…
thanks!
31-Mar-2010
Posted by : Marina
ok hi, i recently have a new guy in my life, and i dont feel ready to have sex with him, i mean i want to i’m just trying to be sensible so i won’t regret it, and he does understand this. i have no other hold backs with anything else(i haven’t just met him, we have been together for a little while now) it’s just i feel our relationship is not ready yet for sex. i need some tips on how to keep him entertained, and myself. ways to spice up the basic foreplay and for both of us to get the most pleasure with out full on sex. please this is a serious question, i’m not looking for anything crazy or dirty, just some advice! thanks x
i am not going to just do it
31-Mar-2010
Posted by : Marina
Okay, I tried oral sex on my boyfriend for the first time a couple of nights ago. I have a really umm small mouth and he’s got kind of…well, you know…But I also found that I have a really really weak gag reflex. So, when I would “go in”, I would always start gagging and then, it happened. I threw up. He was surprised, and I felt so embarrassed as I helped clean it off. But he wants to try again. God, I’m so embarrassed about this…the gagging, the throwing up…ughh… Can anybody give me any tips? Should I breathe a certain way or something? A friend advised me that, when I feel like gagging, I pull back, let my throat calm down and just kiss and pat the head, but idk. Any tips?
Also, how can I make him umm…you know…harder faster? What sexy things can I do? Like should I make eye contact with him when I giving him his job. What should I do for foreplay and stuff?
31-Mar-2010
Posted by : Marina
I have looked up information on orgasms online, and i just can’t seem to have one. I’ve tried everything from not being stressed and relaxing, to different positions, and different foreplay, etc.
NOTHING works.
And no, it’s not him, because he does everything possible he can.
Is it really possible to just not ever be able to orgasm?
Last night, we worked at it for hours and nothing happened. And we’re both just getting frustrated with it.
He says it makes him feel like “less of a man” because he can’t get me to do it. which makes me fell horrible. Along with being disappointed.
and i don’t want to fake it.
Can someone please give me tips other than “relax” and things like that?? Tips like what he or i can physically do to help.
It’s getting to the point where i don’t even want to get into bed anymore because i just know it’ll be a disappointment.
help?? I promise i’ll choose a best answer.
Also, i cannot achieve an orgasm by myself either. Or with oral
And, this may be TMI, but i get no stimulation from the clit. is that normal?
