My girlfriend and I have decided we arent going to ahve sex but we do fool around and I want to make sure I am maximizing her pleasure. We dry hump and I massage her breast and thats really what I want advice on… Is it good to do it hard or soft or is there a certain pattern of rubbing I should do should I circle her nipple and lick it what exactly feels good? and I think I have the dry humping down but any advice for any of this would be appreciated.. dont suggest any direct contact with the vagina becuase that is past our line.. thanks