My gf and i have been together roughly for months now. We’ve both gone down on each other and thats as far as we’ve gone so far. Im 17 shes 19 and shes had much more experience than i have. Shes had sex before and shes the first girl ive ever even seen breasts on. Youd think i would in NOOOO way have this problem. I can get her off within a few minutes. Roughly between 10 and 20 depending on what i do. The whole act of me pleasuring her not just the singular act. (Foreplay included.) But it takes her roughly 20 to 30 minutes it seems like to get me off. I dont get why. When im by myself it takes a matter of minutes. 10 on an off day. Usually 5. Anyone have a reason why this is happening or any tips on how to speed things along? This makes a second round near impossible for me so id really appreciate it.
Probably shouldve stated earlier i have told her what i like and dislike. Ive showed how as well. Its still not doing it for me. Tonight i practically finished myself while she just sat there and moaned. She said she feels bad when she cant get me off and that she’d rather get me off than me get her off when i feel the same way about her.
Mochi seems about right i think. Ive stopped jerking off myself. I think it helps a little but not a whole lot yet.
Sadly were not having sex so its just a pain in her arm. Once she got a hand and jaw cramp. Shes so good to me about the situation i just wanna make it easier for her. And i dont think shed be down for the porn thing.