my bf and i have been together for almost 2 years now. today we tried to have sex for the first time. usually he has no problem getting an erection when we like make out and stuff. but when it came time to have sex it was really hard. we both think he was nervous so that’s why. but the thing was he could get hard during foreplay and all but the moment he tried to get the condom on, he couldn’t. he would just go limp and so he couldn’t roll it on properly. we thought maybe if he just put on the condom anyways and then we started having sex again, it’d get hard again. but cuz it was limp, he couldn’t even get the condom on! it would get stuck half way up. is it normally so hard to get a condom on even if your limp? or does it have to be erect? and how can we get passed his nerves. i understand why he’s nervous but it does get frustrating for both of us and we want to be able to have sex because we’ve waited so long. any suggestions or tips? we’ve tried everything we can think of to try to keep him hard. oh and btw, we really don’t want to just not use the condom.