The problem is that within minutes of having sex the condom appears to dry out and stretch down the shaft of my penis. It begins to become uncomfortable and pinch my skin. Also it eliminates the reservoir at the tip, pulling it tightly over the head of my penis. I fear that this is detrimental to the integrity of the condom.

I usually end up just taking the condom off. There is no problem with sex without the condom, there is no lack of natural lubrication without the condom.

I have tried a KY silk lubricant, but had to reapply it every 2-3 minutes and thats a hassel..

MY QUESTION: Has anyone experienced this problem and how did you overcome it? (I’m not real keen on unprotected sex, however I am an adult in a committed relationship so I don’t need any advice on whether I should or should not partake in it. This is also not a foreplay problem, both my partner and I enjoy foreplay and are both properly warmed up for our encounter. This is an every time event.)

Does anyone have any condom or lubricants that they have had success with? Any other suggestions are appreciated! Thanks

The problem is that within minutes of having sex the condom appears to dry out and stretch down the shaft of my penis. It begins to become uncomfortable and pinch my skin. Also it eliminates the reservoir at the tip, pulling it tightly over the head of my penis. I fear that this is detrimental to the integrity of the condom.

I usually end up just taking the condom off. There is no problem with sex without the condom, there is no lack of natural lubrication without the condom.

I have tried a KY silk lubricant, but had to reapply it every 2-3 minutes and thats a hassel..

MY QUESTION: Has anyone experienced this problem and how did you overcome it? (I’m not real keen on unprotected sex, however I am an adult in a committed relationship so I don’t need any advice on whether I should or should not partake in it. This is also not a foreplay problem, both my partner and I enjoy foreplay and are both properly warmed up for our encounter. This is an every time event.)

Does anyone have any condom or lubricants that they have had success with? Any other suggestions are appreciated! Thanks

Pls advice. Serious, knowledgable answers only pls. thanks!

Me and my girlfriend had sex for the FIRST time on sunday and her period was meant to come today (thursday). She is always regular and hasnt been late before.

We used a condom, and i didnt finish inside her just to be on the safe side.

We were doing foreplay for around 20 minutes and there may have been precome. I had urinated that day and i heard that gets rid of any sperm left in it.

The reason she is concerned is because after the foreplay she touched the condom. And some precome may have went onto the tip of the outside of the condom

Ive been looking up fertility times and things like that, and loads say she wasnt fertile at the time. In fact she was like a week past her most fertile stage.

It only natural to be concerned after the first time, so whats the likely hood she may be pregnant.

Gimme a percentage that you think,
eg 1% chance of being pregnant.

Thanks in advance.

I’m supposed to have my period between May 30th and June 3rd but I don’t feel ANY menstrual symptom whatsoever.

Can I get pregnant because of this?

The past week leading up to today, my girlfriend has experienced nausea all day, and some fatigue. She feels tired when she wakes up, and all of a sudden hates the smell of her new room (she just had it repainted).

I read that those are some early symptoms of pregnancy. But she hasn’t been suffering from other symptoms such as swollen breasts, frequent urination etc.

And the chances of getting pregnant from what we did is incredibly small, I reckon?

PLEASE HELP ME OUT!
*Edit*

Thanks for all the help, just a few other things.

I read up on pre-c*m: they said that scientific research shows that there is little or no semen in it. The only way there would be is if there was already remnants of a previous ejaculation, but that would have been washed away with urination, and i did that already. So it’s unlikely.

But her symptoms are still nagging. She visited a doctor about it and he said that it might’ve been a virus and it would go away on New years day (last Thursday), but it still persists.

We’re only 18, and from religious backgrounds that are against pre-marital sex. Our families are conservative. If she’s really pregnant, it will destroy her, and her life as she knows it will completely change. It will change mine too, but I cannot live to see her broken like this. She’s the one I want to marry.

I really regret this.

I made a vow at the age of 16 not to have sex until the wedding night, and it has been hard but worth it, because i met and fell inlove with a girl who made that same vow. ANYWHO my question.

I am VERY nervous about the wedding night and I have no clue what I should do.

I know about foreplay, and i have seen pornos in my 21 years (nobody is perect).

But what did you all do on the wedding night?

Like do most females really like to have their clits and that area licked or is that just in pornos?

sorry I am a virgin and very VERY nervous any tips would be greatly appreciated

I ask her if she could play with penis but she has this belief that girls shouldnt have to play with their bf’s penis before sex. But before the 5-7 month period of sex, there have been multiple times where i couldnt get it up either, but after a while it went away and we had sex fine. But to this day we havn’t had sex because she didnt want the erection problem being a fuss so she just planned not to have sex with me.

What is it that’s me not have an erection before sex? Anythign i can do?
Anytime after it fails she just gets really frustrated and we get into an argument about how it makes her feel liek shit, and i argue that she could atleast help me out getting it up.

Any tips?