Yesterday, me and my girlfriend were having sex. Of course, we were using a condom, but when I was about to take it off, I saw that there was a little bit of blood on the inside tip (I think). I took it off and didn’t think much of it. I decided to just continue with foreplay and such, to which then I decided to go raw. After a while, when we were all said and done, I just happen to notice there were blood stains on my finger nails. I, again, didn’t think much of it until after she was gone.
I started having an anxiety attack because I just remembered the blood that I thought was on the inside of the condom tip. I have no idea if that blood came from me after the condom or came from her, before the condom. I’m really freaking out because a couple days before then, we took an HIV test and we both came out negative. Now this has gotten me to thinking if we may have contracted it or anything. What’s making it all worst is that I stress over very little things and that causes me to have anxiety attacks.
Can anyone tell me where that blood could have come from or if my actions have anything to do with contracting the virus?
I apologize in advance for the long read.
Also, I forgot to say that when I was taking the condom off, it somehow pulled itself back so that there was no “extra space” at the tip and it was completely stretched over the tip of my penis.
Thanks for mentioning that. Neither of us are virgins.
03-Apr-2010
I’m freaking out, can anyone help?
Category : Foreplay Tips
03-Apr-2010
With my current sexual partner I have been having trouble using condoms. I have tried 2 different brands, as well as several styles (ultra thin, ribbed, etc.)
The problem is that within minutes of having sex the condom appears to dry out and stretch down the shaft of my penis. It begins to become uncomfortable and pinch my skin. Also it eliminates the reservoir at the tip, pulling it tightly over the head of my penis. I fear that this is detrimental to the integrity of the condom.
I usually end up just taking the condom off. There is no problem with sex without the condom, there is no lack of natural lubrication without the condom.
I have tried a KY silk lubricant, but had to reapply it every 2-3 minutes and thats a hassel..
MY QUESTION: Has anyone experienced this problem and how did you overcome it? (I’m not real keen on unprotected sex, however I am an adult in a committed relationship so I don’t need any advice on whether I should or should not partake in it. This is also not a foreplay problem, both my partner and I enjoy foreplay and are both properly warmed up for our encounter. This is an every time event.)
Does anyone have any condom or lubricants that they have had success with? Any other suggestions are appreciated! Thanks 
03-Apr-2010
With my current sexual partner I have been having trouble using condoms. I have tried 2 different brands, as well as several styles (ultra thin, ribbed, etc.)
The problem is that within minutes of having sex the condom appears to dry out and stretch down the shaft of my penis. It begins to become uncomfortable and pinch my skin. Also it eliminates the reservoir at the tip, pulling it tightly over the head of my penis. I fear that this is detrimental to the integrity of the condom.
I usually end up just taking the condom off. There is no problem with sex without the condom, there is no lack of natural lubrication without the condom.
I have tried a KY silk lubricant, but had to reapply it every 2-3 minutes and thats a hassel..
MY QUESTION: Has anyone experienced this problem and how did you overcome it? (I’m not real keen on unprotected sex, however I am an adult in a committed relationship so I don’t need any advice on whether I should or should not partake in it. This is also not a foreplay problem, both my partner and I enjoy foreplay and are both properly warmed up for our encounter. This is an every time event.)
Does anyone have any condom or lubricants that they have had success with? Any other suggestions are appreciated! Thanks
03-Apr-2010
Hi guys,
I am in my mid twenties, and my foreskin does not even goes down half way of the upper bigger part of penis(upper bigger part I mean which is 1/2 to 1 inch from the tip) .
My questions -
1. Is it normal ? All I have seen in the movies, the foreskin does goes down the upper bigger part.
2. I don’t get any problem with this during masturbation. Will it cause any problem during sex if I do it a.)with condoms b)without condoms. ? Like if it can hurt badly if the foreskin does not goes down much?
3. How long does a normal usual guy takes to cum ? Like if you start stroking your penis continously, how long will it usually last before you cum. For me, many times it is less than a minute. Is that normal ? Can this cause the partner not getting satisfied ? assuming there is a good descent amount of foreplay time involved.
Pls advice. Serious, knowledgable answers only pls. thanks!
02-Apr-2010
Heres the situation. . .
Me and my girlfriend had sex for the FIRST time on sunday and her period was meant to come today (thursday). She is always regular and hasnt been late before.
We used a condom, and i didnt finish inside her just to be on the safe side.
We were doing foreplay for around 20 minutes and there may have been precome. I had urinated that day and i heard that gets rid of any sperm left in it.
The reason she is concerned is because after the foreplay she touched the condom. And some precome may have went onto the tip of the outside of the condom
Ive been looking up fertility times and things like that, and loads say she wasnt fertile at the time. In fact she was like a week past her most fertile stage.
It only natural to be concerned after the first time, so whats the likely hood she may be pregnant.
Gimme a percentage that you think,
eg 1% chance of being pregnant.
Thanks in advance.
02-Apr-2010
My period started May 3rd and I had protected (just a condom) sex on May 22th. The thing is that during foreplay my bf wasn’t wearing a condom and he rubbed the tip of his penis against my vulva (but did not penetrate at all). I’m scared that some pre-ejaculatory liquid was deposited on the outside of my vulva.
I’m supposed to have my period between May 30th and June 3rd but I don’t feel ANY menstrual symptom whatsoever.
Can I get pregnant because of this?
02-Apr-2010
HELP! Is my girlfriend pregnant?
Category : Foreplay Tips
A about 3 weeks ago my girlfriend and I were engaging in foreplay. My penis was only at the tip of her vagina, possible a few centimetres inside, but I did not cum/have an orgasm. I might’ve had some pre-cum.
The past week leading up to today, my girlfriend has experienced nausea all day, and some fatigue. She feels tired when she wakes up, and all of a sudden hates the smell of her new room (she just had it repainted).
I read that those are some early symptoms of pregnancy. But she hasn’t been suffering from other symptoms such as swollen breasts, frequent urination etc.
And the chances of getting pregnant from what we did is incredibly small, I reckon?
PLEASE HELP ME OUT!
*Edit*
Thanks for all the help, just a few other things.
I read up on pre-c*m: they said that scientific research shows that there is little or no semen in it. The only way there would be is if there was already remnants of a previous ejaculation, but that would have been washed away with urination, and i did that already. So it’s unlikely.
But her symptoms are still nagging. She visited a doctor about it and he said that it might’ve been a virus and it would go away on New years day (last Thursday), but it still persists.
We’re only 18, and from religious backgrounds that are against pre-marital sex. Our families are conservative. If she’s really pregnant, it will destroy her, and her life as she knows it will completely change. It will change mine too, but I cannot live to see her broken like this. She’s the one I want to marry.
I really regret this.
02-Apr-2010
I am 21 and next month i will be getting married to my girlfriend of 2 years she is 20 and also a virgin.
I made a vow at the age of 16 not to have sex until the wedding night, and it has been hard but worth it, because i met and fell inlove with a girl who made that same vow. ANYWHO my question.
I am VERY nervous about the wedding night and I have no clue what I should do.
I know about foreplay, and i have seen pornos in my 21 years (nobody is perect).
But what did you all do on the wedding night?
Like do most females really like to have their clits and that area licked or is that just in pornos?
sorry I am a virgin and very VERY nervous any tips would be greatly appreciated
02-Apr-2010
Me and my girlfriend used to have sex like 3 times a week during like a 5-7 month period on average. But after a while we had a long break of sex, i would guess about 1 month of no sex. When we tried to have sex i wouldn’t be able to get it up. I’d be rock hard during foreplay but as im getting the condem and putting it on i get soft. This had happened multiple times and it had bothered my girlfriend alot. She would just get frustrated that it would happen.
I ask her if she could play with penis but she has this belief that girls shouldnt have to play with their bf’s penis before sex. But before the 5-7 month period of sex, there have been multiple times where i couldnt get it up either, but after a while it went away and we had sex fine. But to this day we havn’t had sex because she didnt want the erection problem being a fuss so she just planned not to have sex with me.
What is it that’s me not have an erection before sex? Anythign i can do?
Anytime after it fails she just gets really frustrated and we get into an argument about how it makes her feel liek shit, and i argue that she could atleast help me out getting it up.
Any tips?
01-Apr-2010
Erection Problem! Need Help!?
Category : Foreplay Tips
Me and my girlfriend the other night decided to have sex. We started foreplay and my erection just dissapeared. I had her start to give me a handjob to get it back up and it sort of did. it was an erection but it still wasnt a full rock hard erection. We had sex anyways. Her mom came home before we orgasmed. I was a alittle dissapointed that it wasnt a full erection but i figured i was just nervous. The next time it happened again and this time the erection wasnt coming back. We finally just decided to stop trying for the day. I am 16 years old why is this happening to me? Everywhere on the internet i have looked says thats what happens when people get nervous but i didnt feel nervous or anything and it doesnt look like i have the symptoms for ED. Can anyone tell me what is going on with me? I have been tired lately so that may be part of it. Can anyone give me any tips on how to make it work again so i can have sex?
