Me and my bf for 1 1/2 years had sex for the first time. We started off with foreplay and oral sex for bwt 1/2 an hour and I was wet and everything but he was really big and it didn’t fit in and really hurt trying to get his penis in. I’m not sure if you would say we actually had sex because he wasn’t actually in just the tip and he ended up having to take it out as it just hurt me too much so we just did oral instead. Anyway my question is what can we do next time ive heard of using lubricant but I was really wet it was just that he was too big, help please !! x
No I knew it was going to hurt but seriously it couldn’t hurt that much.
03-Apr-2010
First time sex gone wrong?
Category : Foreplay Tips
01-Apr-2010
Okay, just to give you a little info, my boyfriend and I are 14 and 15. We’ve almost been going out for a year, and we’re ready to have sex. I know we’re young, so please no lectures on that. We respect and trust eachother and I know that if I wait I might not find someone this special in a long time. I just don’t know what to expect!
I know it wont be perfect, and it will hurt, but any pointers or tips? He’s normal size from what I’ve been told, and a little on the aggressive side if that helps!
All I pretty much want to know is, what’s the pain feel like? How long will it last? What can I do to prepare myself for the pain or to make it not hurt as bad? What should we have already experienced before hand? How long and how much foreplay?
31-Mar-2010
Virgin and first time trouble?
Category : Foreplay Tips
Hi, I’m 18, male, virgin, 5.9 inches in length and 5 inch girth. I was about to have sex with my girlfriend yesterday. I put the condom on and moved on top of her (missionary). My body was between her legs and her legs were straight out on the bed. When I put my penis close to her vagina, it felt like i could only get it in an inch. It felt like i needed to spread her legs more I guess but i was hard to get in any further. How do i get it in all the way. My hips may have been stopped by her legs but it was awkward. Am I to small? Is it possible to go in all the way. Please give as much tips possible and if you cant answer please just try your best and gimme something lol. Also even though i was in an inch she could kinda feel it and and kinda moved very slightly back and forth and came way to early (10 seconds)because we had a lot of foreplay and we were both really aroused. How can i stop premature ejaculation. Any tips? Please state anything you think will help me. I dont thinks its cause she was tight, shes not a virgin had sex a few times before me Thanks a lot . Eric C
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31-Mar-2010
Hi, I’m 18, male, virgin, 5.9 inches in length and 5 inch girth. I was about to have sex with my girlfriend yesterday. I put the condom on and moved on top of her (missionary). My body was between her legs and her legs were straight out on the bed. When I put my penis close to her vagina, it felt like i could only get it in an inch. It felt like i needed to spread her legs more I guess but i was hard to get in any further. How do i get it in all the way. My hips may have been stopped by her legs but it was awkward. Am I to small? Is it possible to go in all the way. Please give as much tips possible and if you cant answer please just try your best and gimme something lol. Also even though i was in an inch she could kinda feel it and and kinda moved very slightly back and forth and came way to early (10 seconds)because we had a lot of foreplay and we were both really aroused. How can i stop premature ejaculation. Any tips? Please state anything you think will help me. Thanks a lot . Eric C
She’s not a virgin, had one guy before me and i dont think its cause she was tight.
29-Mar-2010
First Time having Sex?
Category : Foreplay Tips
Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 months and we have been talking about having sex. We both love each other soooo much. Im a virgin and I feel like I woild have no idea what i was doing if we ended up having sex. I need some tips like positions, foreplay, just things that guys like. Thanks so much!
27-Mar-2010
my boyfriend and i are planning on having sex for the first time (using a condom) and i’m nervous- not bc i’m not ready but because i’m one of those ppl that has bad luck and i dont want to screw something upp /:
so yeah idk any tips you have would be great. i’m worried about how to put the condom on, what good things to do during foreplay are to get him really turned on, what do to when he actually goes in, what to do after he’s in. yeah i know you’re probably thinking shes not ready but i mean niether him or i have had sex before so its a learning experience for both of us. so yeah, any advice?
04-Mar-2010
Lesbian sex question, first time?
Category : Foreplay Tips
I get the feeling that it’s almost time for me to have sex with this girl. I’ve had sex with men, but for women I’m sure it’s a little different. I am by nature a giver and could use some tips. Specifics please…I do not need the general information or creepers asking me to film it. What’s the longest you’ve focused on foreplay.
04-Mar-2010
Questions about my “first time”?
Category : Foreplay Tips
Basically- my boyfriend and i are planning on having sex, we’re going to use a condom, and we’ve done most forms of foreplay etc. i just would like to know how much blood, pain, or pleasure or what to expect, anyone have any tips they could offer?
03-Mar-2010
sex for the first time?
Category : Foreplay Tips
okay so i like this guy and we have been talking for several months now. we have only gone as far as making out and last time he started feeling up on me. we both really enjoyed itbut i want to take it to the next level..the only thing is that i am really really shy and i need some tips on what to do next. he leaves in two weeks for college so i dont have much time. we talked about doing it yesterday but i wasnt able to get out of my house to see him. what do i do? how do i go about with foreplay? any tips would be really helpful on anything that has to do with this.
and dont give me questions about how you should be married or im too young because im not. and i am asking not because im not ready because i am ready..i just dont want to screw everything up..i want to know what i am doing or have an idea because he is very experienced and i am not. he will be my first everything.
any advice?
i know what i am doing. i am not going to have sex with him just so he wont leave me because i know he is going to college anyway. i am doing it because i am ready and because i want to do it with him. yeah okay, maybe i wont marry the guy but seriously what are the odds now in days that you marry the guy you give it up to the first time. yes i believe in god and everything but i think that everyone is different and that when you are ready to do it then you decide whats right. in my opinion i dont fully go with the no sex before marriage thing. but thats MY opinion. so just to clear things up, especially to ‘unhappy with yahoo’
1.im not putting out so he wont leave. okay? i have just realized that i am ready and i know what i want so you dont have to be a smartass about it.
2.i know there is no rush..im just feel like im ready. and i didnt mean im going straight to sex but i was just getting opinions.
3.and yes i will use protection..im not a complete da like some of you think i am.
02-Mar-2010
Me and my gf have been going out for 3 and a half months and she wants to have sex. We havent gone past hooking up or making out but she is comfortable with everything after. I have wanted to keep our relationship more mental than physical because i really care about her. I just wanted to know little things that would make her first time amazing. Like little tricks to make her comfortable and still have it feel good to her. Tips for foreplay would help too.
