I recently started dating a new guy. He is 25 years old and he admitted to me that before he and I got together he had only had sex 3 times, twice with one girl and a single time with another. We have been together a while now and both felt that we were ready to sleep together. However, each time we have tried to have sex (being 3 times at this point) he cannot keep an erection.

We have tried every kind of foreplay that I can think of (seeing that I am slightly more experienced than he is). These things include cock rings and manual stimulation.

He isn’t gay and has no problems attaining an erection. Once the condom gets put on he cannot seem to keep it hard though. He has lasted 30 seconds tops once the condom gets put on. I know he is very attracted to me because he gets random erections throughout the day that he says are just from being around me,

He says he is confident and isn’t nervous so I don’t know what else it can be. I have had him try masterbating for the last week every night with a condom on to try to get used to it. So far we haven’t had any luck.

Any tips on keeping an erection that I can give him? Or possible reasons for this to be happening?