K so my fiance’ and i were talking tonight, making stupid jokes and teasing each other like usual over the phone and we start talking about sex and what not right. well, i haven’t slept with anyone since i was 14, and you couldn’t really call that sleeping with the guy, but the last time he slept with someone he was like 19.

So as we’re still just fooling around on the phone we started talking about Oral and Foreplay and he was saying how he liked to be the one controlling the whole thing right (which i guess is ok with me) but he is so proud of his success in his past performances knowing that he *knows* how to please the girl, and he was telling me how all he wanted to do was give himself completely to me, and (he doesn’t know) but it got me all like jumbled up inside, because I’m not sure if I can, or how to satisfy his needs… Then there came another problem, somehow as we were talking I took a sip of like a day old drink and gagged. He asked what was wrong and I told him that I have really strong gagging reflexes, he started teasing and fooling around even more saying he was gonna wind up giving me a hard time then because of the oral and what not…

so can anyone just give me tips and/or advice on anything, or your stories. like what you like your man to do for you and vice versa…

thanks!