okay so i like this guy and we have been talking for several months now. we have only gone as far as making out and last time he started feeling up on me. we both really enjoyed itbut i want to take it to the next level..the only thing is that i am really really shy and i need some tips on what to do next. he leaves in two weeks for college so i dont have much time. we talked about doing it yesterday but i wasnt able to get out of my house to see him. what do i do? how do i go about with foreplay? any tips would be really helpful on anything that has to do with this.
and dont give me questions about how you should be married or im too young because im not. and i am asking not because im not ready because i am ready..i just dont want to screw everything up..i want to know what i am doing or have an idea because he is very experienced and i am not. he will be my first everything.
any advice?
i know what i am doing. i am not going to have sex with him just so he wont leave me because i know he is going to college anyway. i am doing it because i am ready and because i want to do it with him. yeah okay, maybe i wont marry the guy but seriously what are the odds now in days that you marry the guy you give it up to the first time. yes i believe in god and everything but i think that everyone is different and that when you are ready to do it then you decide whats right. in my opinion i dont fully go with the no sex before marriage thing. but thats MY opinion. so just to clear things up, especially to ‘unhappy with yahoo’
1.im not putting out so he wont leave. okay? i have just realized that i am ready and i know what i want so you dont have to be a smartass about it.
2.i know there is no rush..im just feel like im ready. and i didnt mean im going straight to sex but i was just getting opinions.
3.and yes i will use protection..im not a complete da like some of you think i am.
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Sex, is the most important thing, i say that if you are a mature women, please do the right thing and save it for marrige, mines plz?
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make sure to use condoms
Wait untill your married.
and always remember that somebody advised you to
1. Take off his pants and underwear
2. He will do the rest
Wait. Don’t do it yet.
That’s my advice.
Keep your virginity!
DO NOT get sexually active so quickly. you’ve barely done anything yet, and he’s just going to leave for college to get laid by a million girls anyways. don’t set yourself up for disappointment and regret.
Well, if he’s experienced, let him lead.
I would really suggest going a little further than just making out, but not fully sex, a few times before you actually go all the way.
You’ll be way more comfortable with the other person, especially being naked, which will make sex not seem as intimidating.
how old ar eyou?
dont rush because hes going to college…jeez my ex girlfirend was a slut and she liked to rush stuff like that.. but its all about having fun whenever the time is right
god punishes thee who do not obey the law of the great book
just blow him. no babies. jesus says no babies for you. hes always watching….lolz
tell him to just do his thing and make it special
it is better to wait. but, if you feel you HAVE to do it now, be responsible. use protection and “go with the flow” you say he is “experienced” so he knows what to do.
You shouldn’t let him be your first everything if he’s going to up and leave in 2 weeks for college.
Just do it. geeze. sex is fun
remember that you’ll always remember your first. Let him know that you are a virgin cause its going to be obvious when you’re doing it.
condom. check
two naked people. check
trust me he’s got the rest.
so you know how to get to the hot and heavy making out part. all you gotta do is pull a condom out of your pocket and he’ll take care of the rest. since you’re the chick, believe me, you really can’t screw anything up. just show up smelling delicious with a condom in your pocket and it’s ON!
obviously your young because your asking for sex tips on yahoo
Well go about kissing then as that gets heavier start reaching downward toward his area nice and slow then grab and feel and pull it out then move on top of him and he should know what to do after that happens hope i can help and enjoy that special thing
I’m sorry, but I think you must be brain dead or value yourself not at all to even be thinking of giving up your virginity to someone headed away from town.
Are you thinking that if you put out, that he won’t go and meet someone new in college and forget about you…. If you are, then you are DUMB… He’s going to college and he will be away from you…and he will meet new women….and if you give up your virginity thinking you are going to keep him from moving on and away from you, then you are making a huge mistake…
All you will accomplish is that you threw away your best gift you could ever give anyone on someone walking out the door. You ain’t going to keep him by putting out…and all you accomplish is hurting yourself…
WISE UP SISTER!
he’s going off to college and is going to forget all about you. you said that he was very experienced? well what do you think happened to the girls he had before? yea, your just gonna be one of them
please do the right thing and save it for marriage
sorry, but i just don’t want you to regret it later
damn well like i always tell everybody NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE is that too hard to understand, if you dont care if you go to hell then be my guest, be more religous , and crap if he has lots of experience then he should get checked for STD and did you say he is leaving for college because all those guys want to do is hit it and quit it. think about it HE WANTS TO HAVE SEX BUT YOU ARE NEVER GOING TO SEE HIM AGAIN WTF well thats my advice – thank you have a nice day
The important thing is to take your time. There’s no rush about having sex. Make sure you and he are alone and have lots of time for this. Kissing and touching are important of course, but be careful not to stroke his penis a lot so that he doesn’t get off too soon. Encourage him to explore your body slowly and let him know what feels good. If you have intercourse then make sure that you’re both not just pumping away like maniacs because that makes the whole thing less enjoyable. Just take your time. Let nature take its course. Enjoy the experience. And DON’T FORGET TO USE PROTECTION!!!!!!
I’m not going to tell you to wait until your married or more mature. That philosophy is a major problem in America today. There has been more teen pregnancy since abstinece has been instituted in schools than at any other time. I will tell you however, that if you want to have sex, fine. Do it and have fun. Experiment. However, please use a condom. It will protect you from STD’s and pregnancy. Just be safe, be careful, and have fun.
not that you arent ready or anything, but are you sure you want it to be with him? he is VERY expirenced and this will be your first time. and he is going off to collage in two weeks, and is now wanting to do it. AND you are having to sneak out to do it. dont let him take it from you just yet. wait til he moves off and see how it goes. give him a few months and if its still going good with him, do it on the first time he comes home from collage. and the plus side is you know he isnt using you for sex, AND you will have time to prepare to make your first time awesome
well just do what you feel comfortable doing. he can lead the way. i dont think you will be able to have wild ya know since its your first time. anyways i really did not want to say this but if you cant leave your house to see him then your probably…never mind. good luck
He’s not the right one. Sex creates an emotional bond. THis is what will happen:
You’ll have sex. He’ll to leave for college. You’ll want to try to date, but there’ll be so many girls at college he’ll quickly forget about you. You’ll cry and scream that you hate men, but then you’ll realize that you were warned.
Don’t make your first time into a one-night (or two week) stand. It’ll leave you with more heartache than enjoyment.
Ok so you don’t want to be told that you are not ready……well if reality, if you were truly ready there would be no need to ask these questions because you would have already gotten your answer.
I am not saying do don’t it because you have already made up your mind. However, I just want to make sure you have though about this, the fact that your boyfriend will be going off to college soon. You are putting yourself into a very vulnerable position. Sex does not mean love and College is most guys playground. This is really when they sleep around the most with ALOT of girls. So you know what? there are no guarantees that hes going to be committed to you after he’s had your virginity. The chances are very slim trust me.
i mean just because he’s leaving doesn’t mean you have to have sex with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i mean have you ever thought about the fact that you 2 have talked for seven months but never formed a relationship? i mean it seems like you two have been just hookup buddies(based on your info)…but if that’s what you want go for it just a warning having sex for the first time is very emotionally draining. trust me girl i have no idea why but it takes a toll on you and you may feel depressed and regretful. don’t end up in a position where you give him your virginity and then he leaves and you realize “wow,i didn’t even save this for someone i love and now the person i really liked is gone”……………………no regrets,okay?
i know this didn’t exactly help you with foreplay etc. but i just wanted to warn you so you don’t get hurt.
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-danniii
well start by kissing and making out…progressing to heavy petting (you touch him and he touches you). then unbutton his jeans and take off you shirt.. keep playin that lil clothes of game until everything is off make sure to give flirty wanting more kisses inbetween. makeout a lil more and he can finger you then he should go down on you…after that couple more kisses and return the favor. (mostly just to get him as hard as possible. (if your not comfortable with it or what he does then say so) when thats done slowly come up licking his tummy all the way up and saddle him and kinda like bouce up and down.
being on top is the best feeling for the girl cause all your weight is on it. OMG it feels amazing.
if you dont wanna be on top then wisper make love to me and have him get above you.
hope it helps…
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okay, you not too young so if anyone says so, don’t listen and sounds to me like you really are ready so take it from me…
my relationship with my current boyfriend is basically the same thing as yours. our next step after making out was giving a blow job and he fingers me. but if you wanna skip that step, it fine. this may sound wierd but if your inexpereienced, maybe watching some porn videos would be good. always wear a condom, never listen to they guy if he says, “oh but its not the same” your young and you don’t need an std, and if your on the pill, thats even better.. any other advice, email me.
hope i helped! =]
Make sure you care about him very much. Don’t make the mistake of having sex for the first time with someone that you don’t love.
Let him take control. If he’s not a virgin he’ll know exactly what to do and how to treat you
Talk dirty to him and tell him what you want him to do to you.
Keep things HOTT so that he doesn’t wanna stop.
Best of luck
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You owe it to this guy to tell him that he will be the first Everything.
a guy likes to know that, he should then realize his most honored position and grant you time to ease into it.
3, maybe 4 months, before you actually have sex, but lots of delicious and provocative conversation and foreplay for 3 or 4 wondrous months.
this will make you forever classy and desirable in his mind. that’s worth the effort. 20 years from now, you’ll have no idea where he is or what he’s doing.
have fun!
Well before you go and do this keep in mind that he is leaving for college in a few weeks. If you have sex with him then you’ll be way more emotionally attached than you think. And if he is experienced, protect yourself. Always keep in mind that you can regret this decision, don’t allow yourself to regret it.
If you’re too shy, the most you can do is overcome that. When you’re with him, do things you wouldn’t normally do to turn him on. Basically, give him the hint that you’d want to have sex.
The only reason why you’re shy about it is because it’s your first time.
Try kissing his neck, biting his ear softly, or kissing him down his stomach. It’s all foreplay and the point is to turn them on. Then from there, let everything take it’s course, you’ll probably be in eachothers pants in no time. hahah.
This is a big step. It’s really important you put some thought into this. He is going away soon. Think about how you will feel after when he is gone. This should be with someone you care about and who cares about you and not a one time deal, even if you do want it.
Now having said that, don’t worry too much about this. Just go with his motions. Do what feels natural.
ok i know that you don’t want people to tell you to wait til your married sometimes its a good idea but if you can’t wait the fuk it. you’ll know what to do when the moment is getting hot and heavy. most guys like it when a girl is aggressive. but if you really want to show him what yu can do give him a good blow it will make him crazy and he’ll want to do the rest after that lol let the good times roll but be safe also.