Basically, he doesn’t touch me much at all and wants me to ‘feel’ him up as if HE is the woman. I don’t enjoy sex with him at all because he barely touches me and I don’t climax . Why is he being like this?
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ask him. try not to yell cuz he might pout away and not want to talk about it.
maybe it’s u or maybe tom has mad him feel like his u know what, but u can try treating him like a u know what and then demand what u want him to do to u during sex while ur making him feel like a u know what
Amy you shouldn’t go for that. You want to be pleased also. You need to put your foot down and explain to him how you feel. Put him on restriction….Why would he act like that you need to ask him because if that was me I’d go else where to find relief….Be good
Sex is about give and take. Don’t give anymore and see how he likes it.
1. There’s no rule that says he must touch you during foreplay and you can’t initiate.
2. I am not being funny at all, I am most sincere when I say, you might want to ask him if he’s gay. Seriously, there are too many men on the DL about their sexuality and that’s nothing to play with these days with all the deadly diseases out there. Don’t be afraid to ask him. If he gets offended explain your position to him and let him know you’d rather offend him than risk your life sleeping with him while he’s sleeping with other men behind your back.
Tell him he needs to get get busy downstairs or you are on strike! If it isn’t working for you, he needs to practice and quit being selfish!
he could have a sexual fetish to be dominated or be in the inferior position like a female. It does not mean necessarily that he is gay or unattracted to you. You should be considerate of his sexual desiree and also describe yours maybe you guys can meet a happy medium where
you be dominate and take the male or dominate position, and then next time he does. The most imprtant part is to discuss with him, what you like figure out what he likes and then go from there sometime people realize they really are not compatiable and you have to be ready to deal with that as well. But communication is truly the most important thing.
Jam a dildo up his butt and see how he feels about it.
And hello, are YOUR hands broken? Get them working for YOU down there, screw his poor pathetic ego.
Yeah I agree that you should ask him. Maybe it is just a fetish he has that he likes it that way. You do need to tell him that you are not getting for filled in your sexual relationship.
It’s possible he doesn’t have a clue what a woman wants or needs, we are built so different.
I have tried to tell my bf, he still doesn’t have it right. But it’s getting better. I’d rather have an innocent, decent guy that doesn’t know what he’s doing than someone experienced through porn or prostitutes.
Idk the answer either.
Is he gay?
That is between you and your husband. What kinda wife are you to come on YA! and ask a question like this?
I agree with Lilmommy also. Maybe he is on the DL
You know when you tell him you ain’t pleased, he’s going to get mad – that’s why you haven’t told hiim thus far – see I’m not as stupid as the rest of the people on YA!
Next time he asks you to feel him up as a woman, grab him by the nuts and tell him women don’t have these.
Guys, whats wrong with you? have your’ll been in a relationship before? is this the advice that your’ll give, only one person got it right…BOB? Out of all the people?
Ok, now to answer the question, yes there are men who have this fetish, that doesnt mean he is gay as others described, however there can be a possibility that he is BI, now I know it sounds contradictory, but trust me they are worlds apart.
As you mentioned he does it all the time, if yes…then beat around the bush and come out with ideas on the pretext of spicing things up/experimenting, ask him to take turns in which one day u be the man and the other time he becomes one, add fantasy by posing to be someone (hitler, jew, or the barber or the doctor, nurse etc) that’s one way to get u both happy.
Now im sure you wouldn’t have thought it from this angle, but start discussing sex, 1st about you guys and then probably watch a threesome porn film (2 guys n a girl) and while seeing it, ask him wonder how it feels to do it (3some) wait for the answer, see if he is selling the concept to you, if he does means he is BI, if he doesn’t then its only his fetish to act like a woman.
If its his fetish then the turns and fantasy stuff will work what I told in the beginning, if he sells u the idea, then ask yourself if your ok for a 3some, if u feel your ok with it, then there’s nothing wrong in it, as long as your’ll experiment together.
Sex is just a physical thing, the biggest mistake people do is linking sex with love, you don’t have to love somebody to have sex with him or her, yes u would enjoy sex more if you do it with the person you love, but that’s it.
Sex is just another physical need like hunger, you feel hungry, you eat food, and then you shit, that’s it.