Like the topic says, We tried having sex the other day, after about 10-15 minutes of foreplay, and she said the pain was too much so we stopped. Apparently it’s not the length, but rather the girth. Are there any tips on helping sex be more enjoyable for her?
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Maybe you need to invest in some lubricant. It could be she just doesn’t produce enough natural lube.
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use lube
well if she was a virgin then it is normal and it would have hurt no matter what. the more you guys do it the less it will hurt.
put engine oil or something there – so she can not complain …
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She’s still not ready (you sure about that 15 mins?) or is tensing for fear of pain. You can try lube (KY Jelly or similar). Girth should not be a problem (think of a baby..). Or you are simply trying to enter at a weird angle.
do you use lubrication? you should try like a ky gelly
also if you do it for too long her body could just be worn from the constantness of well you know- try switching positions to something she really gets off on!
I’ve had that problem. It helps to finger her for a little, then try. Otherwise, just take it slow and be gentle, and use lube. If not, she may develop small cuts where the skin was stretched too much, and that is an even bigger problem because they take a while to heal.
LUBE
Ram that s*** hard a hell and youll have no problems after that, except for some soreness for the next couple days, same as anal sex
Patience and perseverence is the best thing I can tell you. When my boyfriend and I first tried having sex it took us a few months before it actually happened. You have to understand that it does hurt. Next time you two try having sex, make sure there is plenty of fore play and that is wet. And what will probably help too is lubricant as well. But take it slow. Once you two finally do have sex it will most likely still hurt her for quite sometime. Its takes a awhile before most girls are able to thoroughly enjoy sex.
But good luck.
Lubricant helps..yes i know u didn’t say she is dry but it helps u ease in easier and can make her relax..
when u have foreplay try fingering her with more than one finger..let her P# stretch to accommodate more, also include oral sex..then when u ease in do it inch by inch and pull out each time..easing more in each time..choose a position where she cant clench too much..usually missionary is ok for this..if u open her legs wide…even doggy style but whereby she is on the bed..legs apart and u in between them..