I am 23 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 1 year. We have had some great times together but over the last few months, things have really started to turn sour. A couple of months ago i had to take the morning after pill because the condom split and i was devastated that i might get pregnant and ruin my chance of a career. He stuck by me and i was so happy, but i have not felt able to have sex since the ordeal and my boyfriend is losing interest. I just can’t bring myself to do it again – i’m frightened and scared in case it happens again. I have lost all sexual desire. My boyfriend even rejected me the other night when i just wanted to have foreplay. I find myself crying nearly every day and i am unhappy, but then there are occasional good times, like when he calls me Boo Boo (I call him Yogi) and he can be the sweetest man in the world. But i find the smallest things irritate the hell out of me. Any tips for what i should do? thank you
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I hate condoms so my first bit of advice is STOP using them! There is the pill, the shot, and IUD for long term planning. YOu have a lot of choices and without rubber in the way your sex life would likely improve.
Im puzzled as to why you think ‘for play’ would work for him? That’s the ultimate teaser and sounds awful to me. He probably feels really frustrated sexually and I don’t blame him.
It sounds like he is a good guy and that you have a good thing. Birth control is a handy thing and that’s all you really need here.
did u try to explain him your reasons why are you feeling like that the best thing its to talk about it with your boyfriend and come up with a solution that works for both although i think that your fear its pretty irrational because there is a lot of birth control methods that having an unplanned pregnancy its highly unlikely and it seems to me that your using this pregnancy fear to sabotage the relationship
iud. 5 years worth of birth control and you dont even have to think about it. my wife has one, it works!
You need to talk this over together and tell him exactly what you’ve told us here.
If you love each other and are honest about your feelings you can work through this phase.
Good luck.