Ok this is a little embarrassing but I cant seem to orgasm during sex, masturbation or anything. I am new to the sex deal so that might be it and also did not attempt to masturbate until a couple of months before I had sex. What is my problem, I have read every tip in the book, when I do have sex it’s great, we have tried every postion and lots of foreplay but still nothing. Anyone have this problem and care to share some advice on the matter. I usually dont stress it when having sex but I would like to know what one feels like. Is it because i dont have enough experience.
Thank you!
By the way I am an adult 
I have not used a vibrator but my partner is very involved with the whole process. I know there are two different types but I have yet to have one or the other:(
There are two types of orgasms in women, vaginal and clitoral. Vaginal orgasms are the most difficult to achieve. Clitoral on the other hand, should not be too difficult, especially if the area is stimulated correctly. Arriving at orgasm is easiest if you are indeed having fun with what you are doing, and are relaxed, and not putting too much pressure on yourself about having one. I know you mentioned trying everything, but have you ever used a personal pleasure device (aka a vibrator) Used correctly the vibrations alone could very easliy help you achieve an orgasm. Also, getting your partner involved in the additional stimulation may help you get there too. Good Luck!
Need more time, more foreplay
I’ve found the key, for me, is to be in the moment. What I mean by that is. that I have to fantasize or be so into what is making me feel good that I am able to reach a point that my pleasure is building and then climax. If you are thinking about your day, trying to have small talk, worrying about finances/dishes, etc. you will have a hard time getting into the mood. Feeling comfortable with your body, letting a man touch you and do things to you that was frowned upon by your parents/church, being comfortable with your body, having good self esteem, etc. is a hard thing to come to terms with. So, when your man is trying, in your head you will be thinking about him touching your breasts or whatever turns you on and let those thoughts take you higher. It may take a few times, but if you master it through masturbation it may help. Good luck