I know just laying there is a no no… but what about being in the missionary position that’s normally how we start, personally I think ive tried my best to make it fun for him, trying to make foreplay slightly interesting also trying to be the one to make the first move, playing with myself during intercourse, and some other things that id rather not speak of. I even light candles and play music. Ive even ordered pheromones from almost sky-clad.
do men even pay attention to the setting or should I bother. I would like tips on how to be an amazing lover for my one and only as well as know what NOT to do. any advice is appreciated
sorry if Ive given to much detail about my personal life, I just really want to make him happy, in every aspect =3
lol Ive also worn all kinds of lingerie from red silky and see through, to maid set ups, would he appreciate that?




Use your legs to rub him.
Personally, I really don’t feel like guys care about the setting of where sex takes place.
I believe they are just in the mood most of the time and would want it anywhere.
I’ve lit candles and played music as well and he just seemed to not care, or he might of cared and not showed it.
Every female is the same, when they do something special for a guy, they would like to be rewarded or at least complimented for it because they put effort into it.
I feel like what pleases a guy is doing what he wants you to do for his pleasure.
Playing with yourself definitly turns a guy on, I’m too shy to do it but my boyfriend told me it’s a turn on.
Things are better when a guy gets you in the mood, that way you’ll be more into it.
Honestly, if you do all that stuff that you explained in the first paragraph and your guy doesnt like it or appreciate it, id give him the boot. he would be crazy for not being turned on by all that. He must have a bad sex drive or something.
Yes, a lot of men do pay attention to the mood. It seems like you are doing a good job at that, maybe you should just ask your guy what will truly turn him on…