my bf and i have been together for almost 2 years now. today we tried to have sex for the first time. usually he has no problem getting an erection when we like make out and stuff. but when it came time to have sex it was really hard. we both think he was nervous so that’s why. but the thing was he could get hard during foreplay and all but the moment he tried to get the condom on, he couldn’t. he would just go limp and so he couldn’t roll it on properly. we thought maybe if he just put on the condom anyways and then we started having sex again, it’d get hard again. but cuz it was limp, he couldn’t even get the condom on! it would get stuck half way up. is it normally so hard to get a condom on even if your limp? or does it have to be erect? and how can we get passed his nerves. i understand why he’s nervous but it does get frustrating for both of us and we want to be able to have sex because we’ve waited so long. any suggestions or tips? we’ve tried everything we can think of to try to keep him hard. oh and btw, we really don’t want to just not use the condom.
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performance anxiety – try it first thing in the morning when you awaken
It’s probably just nerves, but it could be ED. He should talk to a doctor if it continues to be a problem. There are several well-known medications that’ll improve his performance.
To use a condom properly, you need the penis to be erect and stay erect… until you’re done!
give him head untill almost orgasim then wiat about a minute playing with his cock and then see if he can get the condom on. have fun.
he might not like the condom! some guys hate condoms! his body isnt used to a glove to feel the love! ? Thtas all i can think of other than what the others said… it miight be performance anxiety… use bitrh control then…
it sounds like you want to have sex because you think you have to.
if either of you are not ready for it , it wont really work.
i agree you must use a condom, or you can easily ruin your lives. also if you are a virgin girl, sex the first time will probably not be a pleasant experience,
rather than thinking we have to do this, try stimulating each other to your climax, without the intercourse. this can be pleasurable , and takes the pressure off him to perform. Later it will all come right.
Sex is an expression of love between people , not a pasttime, or something to do when there`s nothing on the TV
As the female, you need to understand that you are basically a snake charmer. You need to charm the snake like the guys with the flutes over in arabia. They play their flutes and the snakes slowly stand up. Since a flute won’t work for you, you need to charm through the song of love. Deep down men want to be wanted and loved. So next time the snake lays down, don’t rush it. Love it. Charm it. Don’t make the snake the focus of your attention. Turn your attention to the music of love, and watch the snake slowly rise to the occasion.