We’ve really only had sex 3 times. It’s fun but…not quite without getting touched/kissed first! We’ve never had foreplay thus far, and I figure it’s a good idea to bring is up asap. Oh, and I would prefer responses from the dudes =)
28-Feb-2010
We’ve really only had sex 3 times. It’s fun but…not quite without getting touched/kissed first! We’ve never had foreplay thus far, and I figure it’s a good idea to bring is up asap. Oh, and I would prefer responses from the dudes =)
sorry I am not a dude, but you should just tell him, pretty much all women need foreplay to be aroused it shouldn’t hurt his ego its just a fact of life. just tell him,
Just tell him that you would like it if you & him did foreplay more often as it arouses you quicker and makes it not “just sex”. From Personal experience it will not hurt his ego. Make him want you more (teasing him), etc.
Just, try not to take your clothes off that quickly!! He will probably ask whats wrong, you just respond “Nothing, just playing hard to get”. If not, you can always tell him.
.Be perfectly blunt.Tell him you resent being treated as a sex toy and a piece of meat.Your want some passion and warmth in the relationship.For both your pleasure and satisfaction.Also explain that the present situation does’nt do anything for you and if he does;nt show a lot more passion the treasure trove will be unavailable for the foreseeable future.Wam bam thankyou ma’am is’nt sex
Next time tell him the way it is for you, but with a smile and make a bit of a game of it, tell him, for example, “I want you to have a hug coming and want to see if we can do more playing around and if that playing around takes time, and you enjoy it (as I will) and then after you burst tell me if it was better for you”…. that sort of message.
I have found taking a bath together leads to great foreplay. Have him dry your hair afterward; he has to be naked, lights low, and you can have a little play with him as he drys your hair. Get the picture. You will be getting the message too and it delays getting under the covers.
Hope that helps. Lucky guy.