Me and my boyfriend are in a monogamous relationship. Were both 20 and and he recently just lost is his virginity to me. The only problem that we are having is that sex only last for about 2 to 3 minutes because he finishes so fast every single time ! He feels bad because he feels like I can never truly get off and he does. We tired foreplay, and even masturbating before he comes over but none of that seems to work. It’s just makes me very upset because we both love each very much but this really hurting our relationship because he feels so bad about himself after wards and I don’t want him to feel like that. I just want sex for us to me pleasurable and last longer so we both can feel good. He was thinking about taking a pill like viagra but I don’t know if that would actually help, plus because he is so young it makes me worried. Any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated.




Well you said he just lost his virginity to you
hes still new to sex and its very exciting at the start, combine that with nerves and performance anxiety and you got yourself a PREMATURE EJACULATOR!!!!!!!!!
what about if he gives you oral sex then 2 mins before you arrive tell him to jump on
don’t worry too much, it’ll get better
at least he realizes its a problem. my boyfriend is exactly the same. I told him to masturbate once a day without giving him a reason, then one day he asked me- is the reason why you told me to do that everyday so i can last longer? and i was like uh what are you talking about. lol idk it sucks, but if we love our boyfriends we just have to get a good vibrator i guess