My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, and we have 2 kids. I need some advise or tips on ways to make him last longer in bed.
It’s been like this our entire relationship. Sometimes he barely last 30 seconds. We’ve tried skipping foreplay, having him masturbate a little bit prior to intercourse and having him wear 2 condoms. None of these things make any difference. Sometimes we’ll talk about VERY unsexy things like baseball and work during sex to distract him, which sucks for me and doesn’t work for him anyways.
I asked him to talk to his doctor about it but his doctor just said it was because he was overweight. So he started a diet and lost 50lbs, and STILL that didn’t work.
Does anyone out there have any ideas or advise?
Thanks so much. 
Have him, how do I say this safely, go on his own once before the two of you make whoopie.
Tell him about the roller coaster method. Have him reach several ‘I’m about to blow!’ moments during sex and then slow down. Do this several times (at least three) and once he finally does… blow, it’ll probably be much more satisfying.
He can have very sensitive nerves. Really, beyond getting a little drunk or sleepy to reduce the feeling a bit. I think your stuck with it.
They sale a spray in the adult store that will make him last longer it really work. You guys should try it.
Go and visit a GNC store, most likely at any major malls and pick up a hormone or testosterone booster. They have all natural ones there 2. It will give him alot of energy, stamina, and sex drive.You can even ask any store clerk, its a small store usually, like 3 people working there. Its a great store, the people know what their talking about. But i dont get it, the more you have sex the more he should be able to last. And you’ve been having sex for a long time lol, the doctor you saw doesn’t seem to know anything.
The doc said it’s because he’s overweight? Wow, what a quack.
Premature ejaculation has nothing to do with body fat levels. It’s part neurological and part physical.
Instead of focusing on penetrative sex, why not have him get you off with his hands, mouth, toys, etc… and then finish with penetrative sex?
Also, anti-depressants typically cause men to have much much much more “hang time”. You could try that.